Parties are all about the feel good vibes!
This thread is an intention to obtain the positive energy mojo flow simply days prior to throwing the best celebration ever!. This thread is all about making a positive party vibe by everyone making declarations of what a celebration is all about and how parties in the past have succeeded in opening the door and making you want to come on in, this place is happening and magical! I see too many posts about negative encounters with all this effort to make a good party and then it disappoints the person throwing it when the energy would not happen. You can make all these efforts but a party is a party because it provides that positive life force energy that grows and feeds from the excitement it builds.
So this is all about celebrating the powers of parties past( that you went to as a guest) and remembering individuals special things that make a party energy come to life without any effort on the part of the person throwing it. This doesn’t have to be limited to halloween, any party you actually attended… what made it come to life with positive energy that grew into something that people talked about and sensed energized by months or years after?
The best events I ever went to had:
1 . That magical sense that will great care went into making the particular party feel out of regular actuality and time. (reminders of everyday life were just not to be found). The area let you escape into an alternate actuality and that’s what adults need to get away from their heads and back into easier times with no responsibilites. And that is what a party is all about. Finding joy at the moment. This is the ultimate success of a celebration if you do that for the people.
2 . Fire- fall time is all about it, even if you don’t have a fire or a fire pit, a few candles or even some way to bring in the energy of fire makes an instant party. We went to an art party where a fire eater was hired. fire is a incredible factor and creates feelings of comfort and unity.
(one party I went to these people passed around a plate of flamming raisins and nuts. I think it had been alcohol like brandy they lighted on fire and it burned blue at nighttime space, it didn’t burn anybody and it was woooow)
3. Waves of actions and arrival times, there’s a lot of life happening when I arrive and I wish to join in because I see there are options and lots happening that I need to get in on. (People are already mingling and relaxed and the party vibe is happening) For this party these people invited all their close friends and good people first and then people these people didn’t know as well came in another wave and were welcomed with the already friendly force of people. Produced a note, don’t have people all reach the same time… the second wave of people will feel they missed out on being early and stay later. Make sure everyone knows the fact that party doesn’t have an end time… it goes till people want to rest or leave.
four. The party thrower built a fort like city structure within their basement. It’s a throw back to the child years with boxes and overturned chairs and cloth tents of blankets. It’s something out of the ordinary and a happy surprise to find that the party is occurring all over the house even in the quite spaces that no one announces. Let people roam freely to discover and then give them something to discover. YES< 3 or more this cause it was epic!
So go ahead if you read this far add number 5… pass the torch cause fire makes a party… what makes you want to celebration remember not your own party but what someone else did… gets a person out of your own head and to the heart of party energy!
Originally posted 2014-07-11 22:40:28. Updated!